Saturday, January 5, 2008

New Year Resolutions

Another holiday, another year, another chance to lie to ourselves.

Many people seem to use this time of year as an excuse to make grand and noble promises of self-improvement. While being questioned on this subject by friends, I was struck by the hypocrisy of the whole tradition. I find this ridiculous practice to be pointless in two respects.

Why do we try to deny who we are? Making unrealistic promises in a bid to obtain perfection can only lead to disappointment. While it is admirable to take steps towards self-improvement, it is utter folly to base these steps outside of reality.

But why should we need an excuse for self-improvement anyway? Every passing moment is a chance to make a redeeming effort. If we confine our quest for betterment to one occasion a year, we implicitly cause our growth to stagnate at other times. Pure intentions to seek change should come from life experience, not an arbitrary calendar date.

This year, I resolve to stop lying to myself and to forsake insincere promises and hollow attempts at improvement.

-The English Student

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